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Monday, September 03, 2012



I am sorry. I think things like this hurt me deeply because I wouldn't ever treat people like that. Disposable. When I am treated that way, it really is hard to take. I spend a lot of time overanaylizing things, thinking about what exactly must have gone wrong (sometimes you just have no idea what happened!) and then thinking about what could have happened, instead of what did happen. I am sorry you have been hurt. : (


I'm the type of person that can't stop thinking about things that hurt. I try but it eats at me. I don't have any sage advice, just know that you are not alone. :)


I am so sorry you are going through this situation. Unfortunately, I think most of us have had to endure this heartache. I still don't understand why some feel they can just dispose of you and your friendship when they have bled you dry. I wish we lived closer I think you are a very special person and one of those rare people that you want to keep as a forever friend. Stay strong you are wonderful!


Because, unfortunately, matters of the heart run deep and hurt the most, and it's the nature of who we are. Especially we women! You're not alone in this. We all struggle with letting go at some point in our lives, usually more often than we'd like to admit! I read a poem once about the nature and fluidity of friendships - how some pass through and others stay. If I can find it, I'll post it. It was interesting and a bit of an "aha" moment. It certainly made me think about some of the friendships I have had and do have. Hang in there!


ik kan dit soort dingen ook moeilijk loslaten, ben trouw in vriendschappen en snap moeilijk als mensen een jarenlange vriendschap ineens weggooien....


Wow I've been reading your blog for quite a long time but I've been in a lost friendship situation and felt those emotions in that order - confused then mad then hurt - this was the best friend I thought I'd grow old with as a matter of fact I have 2 birthday cards for her that I can't use and can't get rid of that talk about being and growing older together - It still hurts and this happened about two months after we came home from China with our oldest daughter and we are about to celebrate our 8th gotcha day, so almost 8 years and I still miss what we had...

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